We all must have felt world and ours hearts sinking around us at some point in our lives..you don eat and breath well in these times..people say when you emerge from these times  you are bigger stronger better,,,but really what's the point of all this elusive mind boggling thinking,,i bet we cant find such a person who really emerges better,,he,ll always and ever will live in his past..its better if we try and live to make ours pasts better